Inside-Out Hospitality

What comes to mind when you hear hospitality?

For many of us, it’s inviting people into a beautiful, well-decorated home with matching plates and a warm meal.
But that picture makes hospitality feel like something for “someday”:

“When I get my own place…”
“When my living room looks less like a storage room…”
“When I can afford proper plates…”

I once spoke with a young, excited bride-to-be who already knew exactly how she’d decorate her future home — scents, centerpieces, and all— for the many guests she dreamed of hosting. Yet, while still living with her parents, she gathered and mentored a group of young girls right in their living room.

She understood something we often forget:
Hospitality begins where you are, with what you have.

You may think your space is too small or too messy, but hospitality has never been about décor or dinnerware.
It’s about people — making others feel seen, valued, and included.

Jesus modeled this perfectly. He said, “The Son of Man has no place to lay his head” (Luke 9:58).
He had no fixed address, yet He constantly welcomed people — in boats, on hillsides, around wells, and along dusty roads. Hospitality, for Jesus, was not about owning a home. It was about opening a heart.

Why We Practice Hospitality

We practice hospitality because God first practiced it toward us.

Through Christ, we who were once strangers have been invited into God’s family (Ephesians 2: 12–13).
We’ve received “the ministry of reconciliation” (2 Corinthians 5:18-20)—the calling to include others not just in our homes but in our prayers, conversations, and circles.

So go ahead and invite that quiet classmate, new colleague, or church visitor.
When you include others, you reflect the heart of God who included you first.

Jesus’ “Hospitality on the Road”: How We Can Do the Same

If hospitality isn’t about the house, what does it look like in action?

1. Notice People Others Overlook

Hospitality begins with noticing — the way Jesus noticed Zacchaeus in a tree (Luke 19:1–10).
Zacchaeus was rich but rejected, yet Jesus looked up, called him by name, and invited Himself over.

Simply smile and greet people. Opening a conversation is a form of welcome.

2. Reach Beyond Your Circle

Jesus didn’t limit meals to His friends; He ate with tax collectors, lepers, and outcasts.
He said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.” (Luke 5:31)
Ask the Holy Spirit, “Who can I reach out to today?” — even just one person who might feel invisible. They might not always accept your invitation, but you offered.

Now, quick disclaimer: this doesn’t mean abandoning godly friendships (the Bible also warns about bad company! 1 Corinthians 15:33 ).

3. Welcome Authentically

Hospitality isn’t one-size-fits-all. Know your style and own it!

• For extroverts, it may look like game nights or picnics.
• For introverts, a thoughtful message or a listening ear can mean just as much.

The heart of hospitality isn’t how loud it is — it’s how genuine it is.

4. Use Everyday Spaces

Hospitality doesn’t need a dining table.
In the university, we often met under a big shady tree for Bible study and quick catch-ups — proof that warmth travels with people, not furniture.
Meet at a park, café, or church courtyard. Connection counts more than location.

5. Include People in What You Already Do

You don’t have to create events — just include others in your everyday rhythm.
Going to church? Bring that new neighbor.
Family movie night? Invite a friend.
Sometimes, a simple “Would you like to come along?” can make someone’s week.

6. Let Actions Speak

James 2:17 reminds us that faith without works is dead.
Hospitality shows up in practical care — sharing a meal, helping a tired parent, visiting someone grieving.
Once, when I was overwhelmed, a friend sent me a flask of eru and fufu so I could rest. Another helped clean, and another watched my kids. That was Jesus’ kind of hospitality — love that acts.

Hospitality Beyond Walls

Hospitality doesn’t start when you own a house — it starts when you open your heart.
No perfect space is needed. Hospitality is simply an everyday opportunity to mirror God’s welcome.

Whether you live in a dorm, your parents’ home, or on the move, you can carry Christ’s warmth wherever you go.
Jesus’ “hospitality on the road” shows us it’s possible to make people feel at home without ever inviting them indoors.

So here’s your main challenge this week: intentionally notice one person others overlook, and reach out to make them feel included.
Don’t wait for the “perfect home.” Start where you are

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And until next time — keep hosting hearts, wherever you are!